I've visited Hawaii more than 40 times and I know ALL the tips and tricks for planning the ultimate Hawaii family vacation! I offer free Hawaii planning email courses. I also send weekly emails on Fridays where I share my top things to do in Hawaii with kids, the best family resorts in Hawaii, and my ultimate packing lists! Mahalo!
Stop second-guessing your island choice
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Aloha Reader! "Which island should we visit?" This is THE question I get asked most often, and I totally get why it's so confusing. Each Hawaiian island has its own personality, and what works for one family might be a disaster for another. The good news? Once you know what to look for, the choice becomes much clearer. 🌺 Let me help you find YOUR perfect island match: If this is your first Hawaii trip: Oahu might be your sweet spot. It has the most kid-friendly infrastructure, shortest travel times between attractions, and the most "backup plan" options when things go sideways (and with kids, they always do). 👉 Read my complete Oahu family guide here​ If you want adventure + relaxation: Maui offers the perfect blend. The Road to Hana is a kid-approved adventure, but you'll also find plenty of calm beaches for downtime. 👉 Check out the best areas to stay on Maui (this post will save you from booking in the wrong spot!) If you prefer fewer crowds: Kauai is your paradise. It's Hawaii's most relaxed island, perfect for families who want to slow down and connect. 👉 Essential Kauai tips every parent needs to know​ Still not sure? Here's my shortcut: Think about your family's travel style. Do you like packed itineraries or slow mornings? City conveniences or nature escapes? Answer those questions, and your perfect island will reveal itself. Happy island hunting! Aloha, Marcie P.S. Want the complete breakdown for each island? I've got detailed planning guides for Maui, Kauai, and Oahu that dive deep into what makes each one special for families. |
Aloha! I'm Marcie with Hawaii Travel with Kids
I've visited Hawaii more than 40 times and I know ALL the tips and tricks for planning the ultimate Hawaii family vacation! I offer free Hawaii planning email courses. I also send weekly emails on Fridays where I share my top things to do in Hawaii with kids, the best family resorts in Hawaii, and my ultimate packing lists! Mahalo!
Aloha Reader! I'm just going to be upfront with you: Hawaii is not cheap, and the numbers have gone up. If you've been Googling "how much does a Hawaii trip cost" and getting estimates that feel surprisingly low, it's probably because those articles are using old data. Here's what the realistic picture looks like for a family of four in summer 2026. Flights This is where a lot of families get sticker shock. The old benchmark of $450 to $900 per person roundtrip that you'll still see in a lot...
Aloha Reader! I got a version of this question a lot in February: "We have 10 days in Hawaii. Should we do one island or two?" Sometimes it's "should we do Maui or Oahu for our first trip." Sometimes it's "we really want to see both but we're not sure we have enough time." The wording changes but the underlying question is the same. How do we make sure we're making the right call on something this big? Here's the honest answer: it depends, and the things it depends on are really specific to...
Aloha Reader! Here's something I wish more families knew before they started planning: the activities are not something you figure out once you get there. The good ones sell out. Sometimes months out. And finding out your must-do luau has no availability for your dates is a really deflating moment when you're excited about a trip. So let's talk about what to book, when to book it, and a couple of things to watch out for. Before anything else, check the fine print. If anyone in your family...